Book Review – Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice on Love and Life from Dear Sugar

A book of advice columns. It is more a philosophy of life in most every answer. I wanted to write something about most every answer, because her thoughts, or the question, or something, got me thinking about what I would be writing for an answer. It is an amazing book!!

A fan letter I wrote to Ms. Strayed – Dear Sugar/ Ms. Stayed,

How are you? I am doing fine.

I am reading your book of letters to Dear Sugar. I am writing another fan letter for you to read, or not, as the case may be. I do not expect that I will be chosen to be the next ‘Dear Sugar’ because of this. πŸ™‚ I am writing this more for myself, but hope you will enjoy reading it as well. You see I am a philosopher type guy, ya know, a Sagittarius born, so your book inspires a lot of philosophical thinking for me.

When I started college the major I chose was philosophy. It was for naught since I did not graduate, but the interest in philosophy is still in me.

As I read your answers to the letters, I am constantly writing to you – my own take on the answer and the issue, each and every letter. My wife bought the book for me because she saw it (impulse buying?), and knew I had sent off an answer (the one about whether or not to have a baby) you made to a friend because of the philosophy imbued in it. I just now came across this –

β€œAt age 17, she was rejected from college.
At age 25, her mother died from disease.
At age 26, she suffered a miscarriage.
At age 27, she got married.
Her husband abused her. Despite this, her daughter was born.
At age 28, she got divorced and was diagnosed with severe depression.
At age 29, she was a single mother living on welfare.
At age 30, she didn’t want to be on this earth.
But, she directed all her passion into doing the one thing she could do better than anyone else.
And that was writing.
At age 31, she finally published her first book.
At age 35, she had released 4 books, and was named Author of the Year.
At age 42, she sold 11 million copies of her new book, on the first day of release.

This woman is J.K. Rowling. Remember how she considered suicide at age 30?
Today, Harry Potter is a global brand worth more than $15 billion dollars.

Never give up. Believe in yourself. Be passionate. Work hard. It’s never too late.”

https://www.facebook.com/photo/?fbid=…, and I had just read your answer to Elissa Bassist, who is now also a published author :). Maybe, thanks to you, she persevered and became what she wanted to be!!

Another one was the 1st letter about a lady who suffered a miscarriage. While reading it I remembered a cartoon about grief, so I looked it up, and could not find it. I did see another one whose author had suffered a miscarriage as well. In it she mentions that she felt guilty that maybe something she did caused it, just as your letter writer mentions as well, though for different reasons. This spurred my thinking, and I realized that that is what happens with domestic/sexual abuse victims as well – they feel like they did something to cause wwwwwwww to happen, so they suffer in silence.

I hope your income has increased, and you are able to not work another job to make ends meet. Keep it up.

Sincerely

Published by David Brockert

Joe was born in xxxx, Arizona on xxxx xx 1955 to David Joseph and Alta Mary Brockert. He joined xxxxxx. His early life was spent in various houses in Globe, Miami, Claypool and Superior, Arizona. He remembered starting school in second grade in Superior and went there until he finished seventh grade. They made a move to the Midwest that summer. His parents tried to get work in Minnesota that summer, to no avail, came to Wisconsin and finally found something. Joe went to eight grade in Evansville, Wisconsin. He went to Holy Name Seminary in Madison, Wisconsin for his Junior year of high school. Joe did not make the grade (literally & figuratively) at the seminary, so he went back to graduate from Evansville. He started college at Edgewood in Madison, but without a focus , he did not get very far towards a degree. He did get an Associate of Arts degree from Madison Area Technical College in 1978 for Accounting just to prove he could get a degree of some sort. He never did use it to any extent. Joe worked as a paperboy in Superior and, some, in Evansville. He did some work study jobs in college, but really started to work at the donut shop on Regent Street, Donuts Unlimited. He worked there, off and on, for many years. He spent a summer at Edgewood Summer Theatre near Baraboo, tried to find a job doing bookkeeping after graduation but fell back to working seasonal at Blaney Farms (seed corn). He worked at the donut shop until 1993. He left to work at Triggs Bakery, Quarra Stone and Colonial Bakery. He has worked at Colonial Bakery since 1994. Joe met the love of his life in a coffee shop near MATC, where they attended classes and they never really left the coffee shop. Joe was married on 17 May 1980 xxxxxxxxxxxxxx Joe lived a contented, relaxed life. He did not do much but learn, work, raise a daughter and support his family. He did not attract a lot of attention. He did learn to live for the day. He felt that the key to happiness was to remember to stop and smell the roses, or to look at the most beautiful sight he had ever seen, Mary, or to just go for a walks with her. He was humble enough to know that his writing would be of interest to very few, mostly those related to him, obviously, so he never tried too hard to get his rambling thoughts recorded.

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